I like to keep my most precious people and moments private. Even my closest friends know I don't really share much on my personal life but especially on my relationship. I guess I am more of a listener than a talker, and even here I am always cautious of what I post.
I prefer sharing about my perspective on things rather than delving on my personal life.
But then there are days like this, when I think of my relationship and look back at the growth, all the commitment in getting the work done, the good times and the challenging times that only the both of us know, the moments that are simply priceless.
I guess a snippet of what I have been feeling wont hurt.
Its been a while since ive written this post but the same sentiment lingers.
To my Dodo, my kindergarten - university friend, my boyfriend turned fiancé, my husband to be in less than 3 weeks. It was and always have been you from the start.
I dont know how to articulate this properly. Its just that being with you... everything just makes sense. I am a better person, a stronger, smarter and wiser person because of you . To be in relationships where the other person makes you a better version of yourself, has always been my dream. Dear dodo, you are probably the most annoying person in my life. You know exactly how to push my buttons and you especially love it when I get mad, because as always in 5 seconds I cant help but laugh. I hate that you can make me laugh even on the times when I feel like you deserve a smack. But I would not trade this for anything else in the world. To experience life side by side with you will not be something I take for granted, everr
Thankyou for loving me well, and I dont only mean through flowers and letters, but through your unconditional, unwavering support, for the times you get angrier at my situations than I am, for the times you showed up continuously, for the efforts, for showing me the sincerest form of love, for that safe space, and for loving me as I am. For always making me feel included in your life, updating me every second of what you are doing since unidays HAHA, for always making sure my bucketlist gets ticked off, for always saying goodnight even when we are in the middle of an argument, ..and so many little moments that will take forever to write.
There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, or perfect love... only two perfectly matched people who continuously puts in the work in building that relationship. I am not perfect but with you it is easy to want to put in the work and effort to be each other's best partner.
If this is not true love then I dont know what is.
ps. excuse my grammar.
