The recent read that has been on my mind, exploring the philosophy behind what truly makes a well-lived life.
Too much of a thing is good for nothing. I like to think of it as 'the art of a balanced life '
The chapters are short, and the words are simple yet direct . I like how this is a book you can squeeze in 10 minutes a day while having your morning coffee, or like me, in the quiet time before bed. The other day I was catching up with my friends and amidst our discussion we realized how easy it is to fall into the negative cycle trap. When things are just bleak and blahs. Especially the more we grow up the smarter we get and the more we are exposed to real world problems.
Another revelation - the more stupid you are, the more like-able, happier and care free you become.
More than anything, I realize a positive mindset is something that we have to practice like a muscle until it becomes second nature. Anything that is worth doing is hard, and this year for me (if you cannot already tell) is all about adulting, doing the work and keeping myself accountable.
Sometimes I wonder, why not have school subjects on emotional intelligence? On how to be decent human beings.
If only everyone was taught how to communicate when hurt, how to set boundaries, how to build healthy relationships - the world would be a better place if only school systems are rooted in producing emotionally intelligent humans as opposed to obedient 'workers'.
Anywayssss, in his book Robin Sharma helped me shift my focus from external riches to internal wealth - purpose, peace of mind, health, self growth. I like to think that if you have a beautiful mindset, carry yourself gracefully and find your life purpose - that satisfaction lasts much much longer than buying a new bag.
The greatest investment is in yourself and building a life that is all rounded, enriching and humbling.
What truly matters most for an all rounded, wealthy life :
- Growth
- Wellness
- Family
- Craft
- Money
- Community
- Adventure
- Service
